Most of us are aware of how sexual attraction fades over time, but few do anything about it.

Dan Trepanier

Mentor Coach , Survey - What's The Health Of YOUR Relationship with your 'SIGNIFICANT OTHER'

As you contemplate the state of your current relationship, consider these ten statements.

If your answers are different from what I’ve posted below, perhaps you’ve stumbled across an area in your relationship worth further discussion and exploration. 

The aim is to do what matters to live and work on your terms, including relationships that matter.

To idealize or be obsessed with someone else is not healthy. Distance and space are an essential part of a healthy relationship. The occasional bout of alone time builds personal growth.

Would YOU answer any of these questions differently? If so, then let’s talk.

  1. Do you obsess overspending every moment with your honeybee? NO
  2. Do you have friends and hobbies inside and outside of your relationship? YES
  3. Are you well aware of the reality of life’s demands outside of your partnership? YES
  4. Can you attend a social function alone and have as much fun as if your partner had participated? YES
  5. Do you offer each other support and pleasure without being ‘glued at the hips’? YES
  6. If you ended your relationship tomorrow, would you remain friends? YES
  7. Is your relationship based on authentic love, understanding and mutual respect? YES
  8. Is your partner a primary preoccupation? NO
  9. Are you always looking for someone to make you complete? NO
  10. Are you still hoping for love, and when you find it is paranoid, you will lose it? NO